It was a rhetorical question.
IF one believes that Israel has no right to exist as a nation (anti-zionists) and that the land was stolen from the Palestinians (which, historically speaking isn't even true, because there was never a unified Palestinian nation until the Mandate for Palestine), then logic simply follows that by living in that "occupied Palestinian land" you are "an occupier", does it not?
Your specific analogies to that are bad, because you can live in America without participating in Trump's policies or the "war on terror".
A better American analogy would be to say that everyone who lives in America is complicit in benefiting from the genocide of the Native Americans, whose historically inhabited these lands. And in that case, yes, we Americans are just as guilty as benefiting from the actual genocide of the Native Americans to the hypothetical "genocide" of the Palestinians.
In other words, IF one believes that Americans are unjustly living on occupied Native American lands, then I am guilty of that, just as all Americans are. That's not a political statement, it's a logical one.
And yet, you don't hear anyone sane calling for the entirety of the United States to be returned to the Native Americans, because history doesn't work that way. The best Americans and Native Americans can hope for today is peaceful coexistence, equal treatment under the law, and a mutually beneficial society that acknowledges the wrongs of the past while working towards a better shared future.
Personally I believe in a peaceful two-state solution in which both Israel and Palestine can not just exist, but thrive harmoniously as neighbors destined to live in the same culturally and religiously significant slice of land. But unfortunately the people currently in charge, like Netanyahu and Hamas, do not think that way, and under Trump I believe there will be an unmitigated, scorched earth, full-fat genocide of Gaza Strip and probably the West Bank too.
There have always been pathways to peace, but they rely on the good faith actions of Israel and Palestine far more than anyone else.
There is no "justice" in any circumstances in which the hostages are not immediately returned.
So you're literally just confirming this:
You must have read "Art of the Deal".