lumberjacked

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[–] lumberjacked 2 points 1 year ago

Any recommendations for above ground pools?

What did it cost to have installed and who did you use?

Any deals based on time of year to get installed? I’m wanting one for next season so want to get installed before March.

[–] lumberjacked 3 points 1 year ago

Yup. Not to mention we have a Roku, iPhone, Chromebook, and Switch we have to manage, with three kids profiles on each.

Another thing, I have a 13 year old and a lot of apps (like YouTube) have little kid and adult.

When I was a kid and had cable there were lots of content edited for mass consumption. You could turn on TBS and watch an R movie edited down to somewhere between PG and PG-13. No one is editing down all this content now.

[–] lumberjacked 14 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I have three kids. I am very present. I work from home and I’m constantly monitoring what they are using . Parental controls are a nightmare.

There are apps that are rated as ages 4+ but they have chat features.

There are apps you’ve ok’d them to use but requires the parents PIN every time they open it.

Screen limits randomly reset themselves. A lot of times that means you have allowed something that limit blocked and now you have to ok it again.

Imagine being out with three friends and you need to know everything they are doing on their phone and have to enter a password on it every 15 min.

[–] lumberjacked 17 points 1 year ago (2 children)

This happened to me about 5 years ago. Wasn’t too bad. Just had hives and awful gut pain. Enough to make you not want it but nothing life threatening.

Since I’ve figured it out, I’ve had beef or pork accidentally maybe two or three times. Feel awful for about a day.

I don’t miss red meat too much. Thinking about going full vegetarian.

[–] lumberjacked 4 points 1 year ago

From the website it looks like UP just said “sure, we will listen.”

I could have used this twice in the last month but I’m Not holding my breath.

https://www.restartlonestarraildistrict.org/news

[–] lumberjacked 2 points 1 year ago
[–] lumberjacked 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Maybe that's the difference. I sweat like crazy out my feet, like soaking socks, but my tush is usually pretty dry. I'm extremely picky about my socks (I like Darn Tough).

[–] lumberjacked 3 points 1 year ago

In high school I worked on a ranch. On a couple of occasions I got to round up cattle on horseback. My friends were competitive ropers and I tried it a couple of times. I couldn't rope anything.

Honestly, the most fun I've ever had at a job though there's no way I would spend all day on a hot horse with my 30 something body.

[–] lumberjacked 49 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Here's my experience:

My wife and I both grew up very conservative evangelical. Over the last 15 years, we went from right to left (which I'm so happy to have had someone on that path).

Meanwhile, a good chunk of our family has gone hard right or turned a blind eye to those who do. My wife and I have taken different approaches. I dropped off all social media where family was. I've established my own boundaries based on how batshit crazy they are and how much I want to stay in touch.

Cousin who posts all the conspiracy shit? I'll see you at wedding and funerals.

Dad who was an amazing father but listens to Tucker Carlson too much? We typically have 2 hours of conversation before we get to politics. So that's how long we spend together.

My wife deals with that stuff better. She posts on social media but in a kind and persuasive way, never arguing or getting mad on there, even though she is.

For me, the biggest reason why it's been good to take the more soft approach is the number of people who reach out to us (mostly my wife) because they are beginning to change their views too. They need a safe place to ask questions. This has included a niece who confided that she's gay and a sibling who went from moderate republican to climate activist vegan. Coming out the other side together bonds us even more.

So, boundaries. Be firm, but kind. Be patient and inviting for those asking questions. Also, yes therapy.

[–] lumberjacked 34 points 1 year ago (8 children)

Do what now? What’s wrong with Hanes and fruit of the loom? This is not something I knew people had strong opinions on.

[–] lumberjacked 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Can confirm. Lassos are fun.

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