my own personal meeting notes
... are work-related and thus fall under commercial use.
You seemed to think that was crazy, but also don’t seem to understand why Obsidian is hurt more by this decision than I am.
How is Obsidian hurt by you not using it? The only way I see is through the threats you made to "warn other people", this would be vindictive damage done by you against an indie developer team, who made a private pet project of theirs available to the public.
Apparently I have no reading comprehension. I am sorry. I got confused at some point.