kiwicheese

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[–] kiwicheese 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Kind of opposite. My girlfriend would give me a hand job because she wasn't horny when I was. Then suddenly ask me to finish doggy style. I assumed she got horny enough.

After a couple of times I told her that she feels different inside when this happens.

Then she told me that it's not that she gets horny, it's just that her arm gets tired. I then had to tell her I'd rather just stop, than fuck her when she's not horny.

[–] kiwicheese 4 points 1 month ago

Here we have 3 year old kids walking to kindergarten unsupervised.

[–] kiwicheese 1 points 3 months ago

I know several happily married couples with kids and everything, that started as friends with benefits or even just sex. As in basically sex before the first date. So yeah, totally possible.

For your second question, the easy answer is that it's how they were taught they are supposed to be. On purpose or not. Maybe both parents didn't like talking about emotions with "a boy" or with anyone, and now they are not used to it and barely have the language to talk about it. Or maybe something made them believe that their emotions are unusual, weird or even wrong, and choose not to share. I guess it's very individual.

[–] kiwicheese 4 points 3 months ago

Also not a prostitute, also heard them answer this before.

They often pick something that makes it clearly different. Like always use condom at work, never outside work. Maybe only the boyfriend gets anal. Or maybe only the boyfriend gets vagina.

Actually the condom thing was an issue mentioned in the news in my country. That is not a good strategy, especially if they get a new partner fairly often.

[–] kiwicheese 2 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Sometimes. For me, the real answer is usually too long.

For example I'll list 5 things, and she doesn't understand 4 of them. So I spend a few minutes explaining one of them, at which point she will realize how boring it is and lose interest. After a few times she will stop asking.

I learned that the correct answer is short and simple. Like "How lucky I am to have you", "What to cook for dinner", "What is that smell, it might be me" or maybe just "work".

Also, it has to match the facial expression I had right before she asked. Sometimes the hard part is to figure out what that was.

[–] kiwicheese 2 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Even if I prefer a slim body, an overweight woman can still have an amazingly hot body.

Plus, a woman can have a "below average" body (slim or fat), and still be very hot.

I'm not sure if the question is just about the body or the entire woman, so I answered both.