Idk being more social after covid has made me more conservative. A lot of behavior that I assumed was exclusively online turned out to be surprisingly common in real life.
A lot of the sexism parts in particular were jarring. A significant minority of grown ass women basically used #metoo as leverage to behave in a sexist and immature manner. There's also a culture where other women are extremely reluctant to call out that behavior, or else they might be accused of "internalizing their sexism" and not sufficiently supporting women. I dismissed the postings about that as incel-bait during the pandemic, but it turns out it's extremely common.
Lol maybe if you're a white guy in a middle class neighborhood below the age of 60 that doesn't have any open indication of being queer or a ethnic/religious minority.
Men are much more likely to be a victim of every other violent crime besides rape.