Just want to point out this person is on a 4 hour old account.
Beware of scams that look well, like this. It’s frankly suspicious that OP gives details but not many and immediately tries to draw people to a private 1 on 1 platform. There are scammers out there sadly who will do this kind of thing, spend months even pretending to be a lover or friend and try and get money out of it that has nothing to do with leaving a bad situation.
Maybe they’re real and if so OP I’m very sorry about all you’re going through and do want you to know as a human that you have inherent value. That sadly in this day and age people do things like what you’ve described and your feelings are valid. Your pain is valid. That said, why don’t you try and interact with others online more before asking strangers for help? Get to know people in a group setting, commiserate if you need it. I think in the near term that will help a lot more than projecting hopes and desperation onto a single other person expecting the world from them. One step at a time.
I mean considering the west's history of assassinations, the fact you could modify a washing machine to dispense something absorbed through the skin which kills quickly or slowly, not entirely unreasonable for someone in his position though I really doubt there is a person whose job is to just sit across from his washing machine. More than likely he has a security person responsible for securing access to various things including washing machines to prevent well all kinds of attacks.