These images are months apart...? Is that typical when evaluating damage? To me, it is clear it was struck from just the second image alone
colonelp4nic
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I'm not autistic, just ADHD, so please stop me if I'm invading a space where my commentary isn't welcome.
You didn't recognize that the girl in question was setting boundaries, which isn't your fault, but I'll get back to that in a minute. From her perspective, she made it clear that she wasn't interested in you romantically, but she felt like subsequent actions still had romantic intent, like spending a lot of time near her and chatting. The way she was communicating with you wasn't working, so she tried asking a friend to find an alternative resolution. I don't want to get into the details of defining what "creepy" might mean to different people, but what's important is that she felt unheard and wasn't able to influence her environment to meet her needs. And that sucks for anyone.
Autism makes it hard to understand subtler forms of boundary setting, but you can totally learn how! I had a poor time understanding and respecting boundaries because throughout my whole childhood, my boundaries were never respected, nor were anyone's boundaries in my childhood environment, so I never learned. And the things I implicitly learned where downright harmful. I may be projecting a bit, but I suspect you have a difficult time both setting and respecting boundaries because you haven't been taught. Personally, I loved the book (or audiobook) Set Boundaries, Find Peace by Tawwab. It walks through a bunch of conversation examples regarding setting boundaries, which my autistic brother said is super helpful.
https://www.amazon.com/Set-Boundaries-Find-Peace-Reclaiming/dp/0593192095
Can you clarify what you mean by that? It sounds strangely gatekeepy to me, but maybe I'm misunderstanding
Where is your VPS located, and which Wire Guard server are you connecting to?
Kindness is also hard (and takes practice). I believe in both of our abilities to keep improving!
In an environment where old men cling to every drop of power and control they can get, I'm super proud of Biden for putting his ego aside and doing what's best for the country he loves
"Four billion dollars for four miles that doesn't add that much to ridership, what is that about," reads to me like an absolutely insane take, so I'm wondering if I'm missing something. Does this person not understand how much more growth West Seattle could see if it's more connected with the other population centers? Were they also upset with all of the money spent on the bridge?
In your HAProxy config (like in this example), it's checked from top to bottom. So your top-most frontend case should be the one that checks for the special keyword case. Then, if it doesn't match the keyword, HAProxy will continue going down the list until it finds a frontend that does match. So your second frontend should match for everything, because if it doesn't find a match, HAProxy shows an error
They'd better add one of those kill markers to that Bradley
Cool, I think that first link will work for you. Then you can just 'redirect' for the no-keyword case: https://www.haproxy.com/documentation/haproxy-configuration-tutorials/http-redirects/
Remember, SSL/HTTPS does encrypt the URL path, so if the final website requires HTTPS, your proxy will need to have its certificate trusted by your clients
Maybe have two cases:
For the (matched keyword) case, something like this: https://serverfault.com/questions/729232/reg-exp-for-url-in-haproxy
For the (random routing) case, something like: https://www.haproxy.com/blog/haproxy-configuration-basics-load-balance-your-servers
I am a little confused on your question, though. It sounds like you maybe want 3 cases? Can you try wording it differently?
That is an insane amount of intercepted air assets! Amazing work by the AA teams!!