But my initial comment was the one you took umbridge to. And that original comment involved it being confusing for new users. So regardless of whether there were alternatives at the time I signed up or not, and regardless of whether people will move or would choose another instance if they knew, the point that it is confusing still stands and you haven't really successfully argued that it's not confusing.
Also, there are other fediverse projects besides Lemmy. Perhaps I would have gone to one of those before coming to Lemmy.
If you don't think that people naturally assume that their Internet usage will be subject to their local laws, you're missing the point entirely. People don't think that using the internet and making statements that are legal where they live will get them in trouble with law enforcement entities the world over and they definitely don't think that they will get other people in trouble with local authorities in some other country. They don't think about this at all. There is an inherent assumption being made and it's not that the website itself is American or German or Chinese. It's that they will be more likely to make the assumption that their conduct will be viewed through the lens they are familiar with.
If the intention is clarity then more clarity up front is always a plus.
That's not what I'm assuming. The assumption isn't that it's the USA or any country at all. The assumption most people make is that they and their actions are covered under the laws of their locality.