_skj

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[–] _skj 8 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

The major Abrahamic religions have the same root and have had a heavy influence on most of the world. This is largely due to the Roman empire and it's successors adopting and spreading Christianity in Europe and the Muslim caliphates spreading Islam through the Middle East and Africa.

Further east, Hinduism is the largest polytheistic religion and features a number of prominent goddesses. Though Hinduism has a lot of variety and the exact deities and their genders change depending on the adherents.

Buddhism, Taoism, and Confucianism don't really focus on any deities.

Those are the most widespread religions, many others were eradicated or sidelined by European imperialism. Out of those left, many are animist religions, believing in spirits that can be a variety of genders.

Some classical polytheistic religions are still practiced today. They usually have some major goddesses in the mix.

If you go back to ancient Mesopotamia, Inanna/Ishtar is the head of her pantheon.

[–] _skj 1 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Government workers don't negotiate for salary, instead they have a set scale based on their job's pay grade, adjusted for the local cost of living. The lowest level jobs are GS1, followed by GS2, etc. Every GS1 working in the same area will receive the same salary

[–] _skj 3 points 2 weeks ago
[–] _skj 4 points 2 weeks ago

The "how are you" exchange is really just a conversation starter, a way for either one of you to talk about something that is on your mind. If you don't reciprocate that, most people will just assume you don't want to talk to them.

In general, if you just respond and don't make any effort to ask questions or keep the conversation going, people will assume you don't want to talk to them. You aren't obligated to respond, but they are also not obligated to continue talking to someone who is clearly uninterested in talking to the .

So I guess the question is: Why do you want to talk to people if you aren't interested in them at all?

If you're looking for support and friendship, that is a 2-way street that requires you to support and care about them as well. Otherwise the other person can feel like you are just using them.

If you just feel that this is something you need to do to not feel like a failure, that's different. It's not a failure to struggle with something, even if it seems everyone else just "gets it". It's just human. You might be happier with more socializing, but you are fine and perfectly acceptable without it.

All that said, depression is also a liar. It will tell you that people don't like you or at least don't care. It will cherry-pick bad memories to drive a wedge between you and others to feed itself.

I hope at least some of this helps

[–] _skj 11 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Gale has a problem where he interprets interest in his backstory as romantic interest. Which is kind of realistic, but no one wants to be on the receiving end of that in real life or in a game.

Like bro, put your dick away and tell me some gossip about Mystra.

[–] _skj 3 points 2 weeks ago

The crash in DC is the big one and accounts for about 2/3 of the 2025 numbers. Incidents like that don't happen every year and will skew this somewhat.

That said, removing that outlier still leaves us with enough fatalities in 2 months to reach our yearly average. I think many of them are still being investigated, so it's hard to say for sure what would cause this increase.

[–] _skj 1 points 2 weeks ago

Legally? No. But it's really highlighting the issue that the legislative and judicial branches don't have the ability to enforce anything since all law enforcement agencies are controlled by the executive. Their power depends on people agreeing they have that power.

[–] _skj 5 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

There's a restaurant in Chicago called Honey Butter Fried Chicken. They serve fried chicken sandwiches with honey butter melted onto them. 10/10

Also, don't sleep on Mexican, Cuban, or similar food. I know Chicago has great restaurants for both and I struggled to find good Mexican food in Europe.

[–] _skj 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I'm a fan of birch beer. Though that's hard to find even in most places outside of Pennsylvania

[–] _skj 3 points 1 month ago

They are usually melanistic gray squirrels and there are pockets of them scattered throughout North America. I've personally seen quite a few in a local town in upstate New York.

[–] _skj 9 points 1 month ago

Not just Americans. You won't even commonly see them in mainland Europe

[–] _skj 1 points 2 months ago

Would you put whipped cream on jello/jelly? That's also dairy and features heavily in dessert. Cream cheese is used to make some icing, cheese cake is basically a brick of sweetened cream cheese. So cream cheese also shows up in desserts.

So the person who came up with it was just familiar with how desserts work.

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