Yeah. It's like when people tell me I just gotta move on after my ex called out of the blue and said stuff so mean, I had to block her number.
I try not to obsess about it. But (in our analogy) it was only a week ago. I'm still going through the stages of grief.
"He tells it like it is"
Our lead-poisoned parents may have bought into that crap. But we know all that is is stubborn arrogance. And solving problems requires open-minded thinking and chasing the problem, not the messenger/customer/employee.