RestlessNotions

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[–] RestlessNotions 2 points 2 months ago

Assuming Canada is similar to the US, apply at temp agencies. Many companies hire exclusively through them.

[–] RestlessNotions 123 points 3 months ago (11 children)

If this was how my cards were dealt, I would likely make it my life's mission.

This country certainly goes all in for cruel and unusual punishment.

[–] RestlessNotions 8 points 3 months ago

As someone mentioned, an Alexa speaker. You mentioned a young kid and Amazon Kids has some great audio games you can play. I've had a blast either playing along with my kiddo or just watching him. Plus you can connect them for use as an intercom.

Occasional outings and a change of scenery might be appreciated as time goes on.

[–] RestlessNotions 6 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (5 children)

Total laymen drawing on my own experience. I recently had some GI struggles and all the accompanying medical testing and interventions to go along with it. I'm sorry you're going through this. You'll be in my thoughts.

If you can get into a migraine/headache clinic, add a neurologist to your list of Drs. They sometimes have great insights or treatments that might help with the migraines. Anecdotally, a combo of a beta blocker, nerve block injections, and imitrex paired with reglan really improved my symptoms. For me it's stress and weather primarily so I can't do much more without drastic life changes.

Have you tried keeping a good diary on something like the Fig app, that will cross reference ingredients so you can see if there's maybe another allergy or trigger?

[–] RestlessNotions 7 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Let me preface this by saying I agree with you and this action is absolutely repugnant. But as the mother to a kindergartener, $40 is absolutely doable. That money is to cover the breakfast and lunch they are missing from school 5 days a week. Breakfast would be a bowl of cereal or oatmeal and a piece of fruit. Lunch is PB&J or chicken nuggets, fruit cup/apple sauce, something snacky like teddygrahams or chips and a glass of milk. It's not name brand foods or varied meals, but it is survivable and depending on the kid (like mine), maybe even preferable. (My kid would be in heaven if I let him eat chicken nuggets every day.)

[–] RestlessNotions 6 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Sausage and peppers. Italian sausage cooked to death with bitter, mushy, green peppers and Ragu. I hate green peppers so I'm not sure this is one that can substantially be improved upon and I have not tried.

[–] RestlessNotions 1 points 1 year ago

Absolutely. I was thinking of my own experiences where I saw animals I knew react very negatively meeting someone I didn't. In one instance, the guy later turned out to be abusive, in another, dude was a rapist.

But it certainly isn't a universal truth.

[–] RestlessNotions 13 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Animals don't like them.

[–] RestlessNotions 5 points 1 year ago

My husband is super guilty of all of this. I tried all of this advice over the years to no avail. Recently I stumbled across a tiktok talking about "right now." It's such a simple and obvious concept but it finally put things into perspective for my husband that made a difference. It goes like this: I spend all day taking care of everyone else's right now. The kids, work, the house, etc. When someone needs something I have to drop whatever I'm doing to help them right then. What I'm doing, my needs, are never met right then. So when I ask for help, even if it can be done later, even if it's irrational, it will help my mental health by fulfilling the "right now" need. Doing one simple chore in that moment when I ask will mean far more to me than 10 big chores tomorrow unasked.

[–] RestlessNotions 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

My Cuckoo is going on 5 years of at least weekly service. I love it. Perfect rice every time no matter the type of rice. I only get a crispy bottom +not burnt) if I add butter or leave the keep warm on on a half empty pot.