I cannot answer those questions. I can speculate. I feel they are new to ENM relationships and may have entered into it as a way to find new partners. Not much prep work or ground rules. Idk. It is kinda looking like Jon is that kind of person. I am so thankful for your advice! I will have to prepare a message to Kay. Any advice on how to communicate my concerns?
Gamaxray
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I have honestly thought about offering him the opportunity to join us.
That's what I want to avoid. I ended up walking into a shit show.
Yeah. Probably.
I fixed it for you!
Yes, they're in an open, committed relationship. That's basically what ENM is. But there's supposed to be communication.
I totally agree. Communication is key is making them work. I have been shut out of any communication regarding the status of their relationship. I know nothing. I Should I attempt to establish some communication? Or should I just fuck off?
Thanks for the thought out reply. I wish I could give you more information. Maybe this is relevant, Jon didn't get Kay any thing for her birthday. I did. I care about Kay and just want her to be safe and happy. I don't want her to do anything she doesn't want to do. And I want her to be able to do what she wants. Jon is actively seeking his own side piece and has possibly found one. I don't see him on Grindr anymore. Where as before he would be on it constantly while we would all chill. I'm of the stance that people should just love and fuck who they want, love isn't a limited resource. All the rules and labels are BS. I miss my friends. Jealously sucks.
I'm not sure exactly. Worried about Kay's happiness and maybe safety. It just has left a bad gut feeling that I cannot shake.
Awesome! I thought so, but I have trash memory, so I wasn't positive. Thanks!!
I feel like this was used in the show. Do you know if it was?
I was going to send a very specific and throughout message. I have it typed out and almost ready to send. But your suggestion may be better. We have been texting eachother Good morning and good night texts for months now. maybe I should drop it in one of them.