BaelfireNightshd

You may want to look into genderfluid as what you’re describing reminds me of that.

It does get quiet sometimes. I’m doing alright. Mostly trying to play catch up with some of my responsibilities and trying not to be overwhelmed. But other than that, I’m doing really good.

I lean towards option 2. Doesn’t seem like that much of a downside for significant improvement to how well this community loads.