This is IMO and I don't intend to gatekeep. Since you asked...
What does the term “Vanlife” mean to you?
It used to mean living in a van; the term was used that way back in the 90s on yahoo email groups, IIRC.
/cynic mode ON
Then it blew up and was co-opted by carbetbaggers and the van-curious. Now it means influencing, watching influencers, posting bikini and/or foot pics, spending way too much money on a conversion then saying "hashtag-vanlife is overrated" and bailing. Most people on popular YT vanlife channels, forums, etc, do not own a van and will never spend a night in a van.
/cynic mode OFF
Speaking generally, and not about present company.
Personally, I align more with being a weekender, despite having traveled extensively for several months
Still working on coffee, but I'll suggest a spectrum of approaches/attitudes
- dreaming <-- most people are here
- weekending
- weekending in a rig that is capable of longer outings. An underrated option, since it gives us the ability to deal with life challenges, natural disasters, etc.
- traveling for months - practically indistinguisable from fulltiming since it presents many of the same challenges: power, water, food, etc. The only things missing are exposure to both summer and winter, and the sobering realization that
this is home
and there is no other home to return to. - fulltiming
TLDR
Vacations and campouts are fun. Living off-grid fulltime is serious business. I am reminded of the joke about different animals' contributions to breakfast: the chicken is involved but the pig is committed.