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Café

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Welcome to our virtual third place, The Café.

Come on in and make a new human connection over a cup of coffee (or Teh Tarik). This is a casual community, do whatever you want, share your oyen pics, your frustrations, and even organize a weekend picnic with the community. The world is your oyster.

Rules are simple, be kind and civil with each other. As with any other café, rude patrons will be kicked out.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Happy July! Sad to hear most 3rd party apps are already down. But, i had a lot of fun last two days? Well, even prior to that. Had my person over to meet the family and the cats. My anxious cat who's always anxious and scared of strangers warmed up to him and let my person pet his back. So cute 🥺🥺

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)
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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Going to be a stressful and depressing day. Wish me luck.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

💪stay strong

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Uhh? Good luck bb! Hugsss

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

good luck!!

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Few days ago, I watched this video on YouTube of people secretly learning their enthic language to suprise their parents. They would find tutors online. I'm thinking to myself. These people are lucky that their enthicity is common enough that there is a tutor online

I don't have that privilege. when I Google my enthic language. It's a fkin Wikipedia page and other pages of that nature. An archival piece

Not that I don't try. The few times I try with my parents. My mom is pretty receptive of it. My dad on the other hand...he made fun of me when I did it. I think he sees it like how a mexican guy speaks in perfect mexican but when it comes to certain words, they'll say it in perfect American accent. A Mishmash of perfect mexican with perfect American. That's how I sound like to him maybe. I hope that analogy make sense. Anyway, yeah that made me not wanting to learn it more and more.

Maybe it's like pandas, just let it die. Not worth saving just because they look cool. Too much hassle not enough utility.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yeah, it's an ass move for making fun other's attempt at learning something, especially when they're still kids. I got made fun of from my cousin for speaking kinda terrible cantonese and english when i was a kid, that sour the deal so much i just quit learning both, all that just so i can communicate with him.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Sympathies from the loghat negeri failure mode gang. Pretty much why I stopped bothering to speak proper kelantanese.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I have arrived, with despair.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Met the sickle

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Serabut. Aku serabut. Mak aku punya putar belit cerita sampai bergaduh adik beradik laki bini ipai duai. Bapak aku pulak degil taknak pergi jumpa kaunselor. Kononnya semua masalah boleh selesai dengan sembahyang. Habih tu kalau dah selesai kenapa bapak aku masih cari aku untuk mengadu? Huh??

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Masing2 yang aku jumpa ni rupa2nya ada helah. Berpura2 baik sebab "nak tarik" aku "ke pangkal jalan" kononnya, pada masa yang sama dalam hati diorang benci aku sangat2. Dasar hati busuk perasan ahli syurga.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Wishing everyone a good July ahead!

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Urgh, Connect is so bad, keep saying instance is under maintenance even though i can access it in web 😒

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Popping in here cos today have a bit of work to do (as is always, work also means ~~reddit~~ monyet.cc). Bacon Reader and Apollo don't work anymore, so i think this will reduce my reddit habit outside of working hours.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

good chance to try reddit detox, haha

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

make an account here so can chat with others. lol

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)
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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Registering didn’t seem to be hard as I thought.

Hello everybody.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Just found out that my dobi guy is from kelantan. He's a chinese so of course i asked him about all those burning questions.

From what i understood, chinese mostly mingle together and have their own community, where everything haram is available there (when the state allowed it).

Yes many chinese supported pas. Didnt ask why. Yet.

Yes the water sucks. The teh tarik free flow is true and not exxagerated.

Apparently most tauke in kelantan are chinese. He deacribed the situation like indonesia, where majority of wealth is hold by local chinese.

Apparently non kelantanese cannot have permanent land deed there. Cn only rent about 60+ years.

Apparently kelantanese cinese damn rich. Authority doesnt check their wealth. They keep lots of cash and use it to avoid tax. Even went as far as using cash only to buy and build houses. Not sure how that works because we will get targeted immediately if we add those properties under our name but that's what he said.

Would kepochi more but customer came.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

hmm, sounds to me they just benefits from PAS, not in the development way but easier to line their pocket, or maybe they just like slower pace.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I noticed recently a lot groups/pages popping up on FB (and being sponsored/recommende to me) that are essentially the type of things that Reddit has. Interesting, cute, funny pictures/articles/videos.

Maybe someone is capitalising on the collapse of reddit to convert people to fb over the last 2 weeks.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

hello, from the other side

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

With how janky the fediverse is:

You must've called a thousand times

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

created this account on the 11th cake day of my reddit account lol

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

welcome dude!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Lemmy instances can't fully show off Kbin-based communities (aka magazines) they've federated with, so just giving a shout to the Microblog section of MagASEAN (which you can subscribe from here though [email protected]) since the recent posts are full of makan posts: https://kbin.social/m/magASEAN/microblog

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Opened up Apollo by habit. Sigh. RIP

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Goodbye rif... It was a good ten years using you.

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