Heck yeah!!!! Its a massive step to take to get confident, to try to ignore the brainworms, and that is a great way to go about it. You got thisssss
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YESSSS!! Fuck them brainworms, life's too short to not dress the way you want to. ๐
Exactly! Last year I bought a new sun dress and never even wore it cause I was too self conscious. ๐ I'm gonna do my best this year though!! ๐
I'm rooting for you! You'll be gorgeous, believe me. ๐ค
There's a lot of fashion options you can try out to draw less attention to your shoulders, if you want. Thin, open jackets can be a good compromise in warm-to-hot weather, for example.
Thats a great idea, I'll look for some like that next time I'm out :) today I gritted my teeth and went out in just leggings and a flowy top. It was just a short trip to the store but it felt nice, especially with how hot out it is today.
You got this.
Thank you ๐ฅฐ