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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/ReallyBlue5 on 2023-06-25 17:24:26+00:00.
My step sister (23F) is currently 7 months pregnant. Just yesterday she was asking around to see if anyone can take her to a doctor's appointment (she doesn't have a car right now) and suggested that maybe I (22F) can do it. I don't mind helping out but I really couldn't this time and she asked for a second time and I just said "where's the baby-daddy? Maybe he can do it."
Both her and my step mother didn't like this suggestion and she insisted that I've disrespected her boyfriend by not using his name and "reducing" him to being a baby-daddy. I told her that I only used the term because we're talking about baby-related stuff and maybe he should do take her instead of other people.
I have not apologized as I don't think I said anything wrong, and after she described the conversation to her boyfriend he texted me telling me he's not offended at all, but asked if I can maybe cut her some slack as she's pregnant.
AITA?