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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Gentrified_Tramp on 2023-06-25 06:13:20+00:00.
AITA for calling the cops on my gf? So tonight I (34m) was playing cards with some of my buddies and it was around 11 pm. I told my gf (34F) that I would come over to her house after I went home to let my dog out and we finished playing. I told her it would probably be around 1 AM. Around 11:20 she messaged me saying that she thought someone was inside of her apartment. I then picked up my phone and called her and the call went to voicemail and this was around 45 seconds after she messaged me. I tried to call her several more times and again all straight to voicemail. I also tried texting her but none were going through. After 5 minutes of no response I called the police and asked for a welfare check because I was worried about her well being and her not answering. I’m not usually like that but the urgency of the text and the lack of contact afterwards worried me. She finally responds after 20 minutes and is mad that I called the cops on her because she had mmj in the house and we are not in a legal state and it could affect her career. When she contacted me I contacted the dispatch to let them know I made contact and that she was safe but the police were already on the scene. I was just worried about her and my adrenaline was through the roof. I’m not sure if I panicked too much and should have just let it play out but also didn’t want to live with anything going wrong. So AITA?