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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Ok_Bee4118 on 2023-06-24 07:39:57+00:00.
So I (F20) never really saw the point of wearing a bra. I have a small chest so I don't need the support, and I think they're really uncomfortable so I never wear them. This of course sometimes leads to the nipples poking through my clothes of I'm wearing certain tops.
I don't really care about that because in my mind it's no different from a guys nipples being visible through their shirt, which is something you see all the time and nobody minds that, so why should it be different for women?
A few days ago we had a family barbecue, and some of my family members complained to my parents about me being too underdressed and how uncomfortable they are with me not covering myself up (I was dressed completely normally, jeans and a tanktop). My parents agreed with them and told me to go home, wear a bra and come back. Telling me that they've put up with it long enough, and that I'm not a child anymore, so I should start acting and dressing like an adult and to start wearing a bra every day.
I told them what I wrote earlier that I don't need one and guys nipples are visible all the time so I don't see why it's a problem, but they just got angry for talking back at them and told me to change right away.
I did go home after they told me, but I didn't change my clothes or went back to the barbecue. I just ordered some delivery and had that instead.
AITA for not changing my clothes and refusing to wear a bra?