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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/ItsSaraMyDudes on 2023-06-23 11:56:12+00:00.
I (f23) was visiting my sister (f25) and her bf (m25) at their apartment. On my way out I accidentally knocked over a plastic flower pot that was standing on one of the planks in the hallway. Before I could say sorry she said: ‘yeah, you have to clean that up because its your fault’.
It was completely out of nowhere, I thought we were having a good time.
Something in that tone just made me angry, I wanted to help, maybe ask for a cloth or something but now I just didn’t want to do it anymore.
She’s used that tone before whenever she wanted something done, she’s a very bossy person. Even when were children.
I just walked out saying nothing while closing the door behind me. It’s been a day and her bf said the spill is still not cleaned up and she didn’t allow him to clean it up because I had to do it.
I’m not planning on doing it. My parents say I’m petty and should just do it to make her happy. But I don’t want to reward her for being bossy with me, even if I definitely should’ve cleaned it up.