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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Fmeinthegoatass on 2023-06-23 01:10:22+00:00.
I (44m) went with my gf (42f) to get a mani/pedi. I offered to drive back so she wouldn’t mess up her nails (salon was closing and they weren’t totally dry). As we started driving home, I thought the windshield was dirty, so I pulled the lever to squirt some soap. After a couple of wiper swipes, gf starts in on me saying that it was rude to just use someone’s wipers and that I should have asked first. I said the windshield was dirty so I thought I should clean it since I was driving. She said the windshield was fine, that she just had her car cleaned, and that she couldn’t believe I’d just go and do something like that.
I’ve driven other peoples cars and never asked permission to use the wipers, but I can be oblivious at times. AITA?