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AITAH for not shaving when my boyfriend demands me to (lemmit.online)

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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/No_Basil3744 on 2023-06-22 15:53:04+00:00.

So I’ve been with my bf for 3 years and he’s never ever had an issue with my body etc. I hate that women are expected to live up to certain beauty standards and quite frankly I can’t be bothered shaving my hoohaa every freaking week. I mean I keep it tidy but not like a bald badger. And no suddenly my bf has an issue with it. So I’m purposely going to grow it out. I hope it turns into the god damn Amazon jungle. Am I the ass hole for doing the complete opposite or is he the ass hole for wanting me to do this

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[–] Discoslugs 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Your bf is the AH for trying to controll your body like that.

You are NTA for having body hair, But it is a little maleicous to grow it out in spite.

Have you told youf bf your are doing this? If so what did he say?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Your bf is.

[–] SpaceNoodle 1 points 1 year ago

He doesn't own you. He can voice his opinion and you may consider it, but it's your decision, and nobody can demand that you do something to your own body.