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AITA for not standing up for my daughter when she got dress coded at camp. (lemmit.online)

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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Left-Swimming-2338 on 2023-06-22 11:43:08+00:00.

I’m sending my kids to outdoors camp, it has been a great time for everyone. My daughter Rebecca 15 is pretty rebellious with clothes, she hears a rule and will go out of her way to break it or try to get around it. It has caused so many problems before.

Now the camp has you do activities like rock climbing or canoeing. The dress code is basically work out clothes, nothing with strings or lose fabric that can get caught. Now my daughter was wearing leggings and a runner shirt before I dropped her off. She snuck in a dress and changed into it at camp. Well that was a no go and the made her change back to her workout clothes or she couldn’t do the activities. They also sent me a note saying we have other things to do and if it happens again she will be asked not to return.

I agree with them 100 % but she has been going on about how they can’t police her clothes and my husband and daughter things I am a jerk for not fighting the camp on the dress code.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Are you guys interested in reading these archived posts? I mead the discussion was had and judgments were made. Why post here? It just makes it feel like filler and I’m not here for filler.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

some of them, the amitheasshole, nah

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

My favourite Reddit sub was the BestOfRedditUpdates, where they copy a post and this seems much like that. So I think it’s a really good idea, but may need a little refinement - probably to include subsequent related posts and comments by the original submitter, and maybe some stats on previous assessments.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Yeah, I think if the original content was there then it would be fine. But it feels cheap to weigh in again on a question that was thoroughly hashed out previously.