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guys, ano rule of thumb nyo pagdating sa relationship age gap?

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[โ€“] 65gmexl3 7 points 1 year ago (2 children)

guys, ano rule of thumb nyo pagdating sa relationship age gap?

[โ€“] decadentrebel 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I got along well with my coworkers who were like 10-15 years younger than me. So if I were still single, I wouldn't be surprised if something developed with anyone around that age range.

Pero 30 year age gap, parang mahirap na. Masyadong malayo ang commonalities. But love is blind, so what do I know? Haha.

[โ€“] yeontura 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[โ€“] 65gmexl3 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

so too much sayo ang tulad ni vic-pauleen, rico-maris, etc.?

EDIT: kung ako tatanungin, yeah it looks too much. Not really disapprove, pero choice nila yun. As long as nasa tamang edad at pagiisip yun nakakabata, then ok na siguru.

[โ€“] Henry 7 points 1 year ago (3 children)
[โ€“] 65gmexl3 7 points 1 year ago

nagjak en poy? hmm abangan ang susunod na kabanata

[โ€“] wabafee 5 points 1 year ago

Asking the real questions ๐Ÿ˜‚

[โ€“] megane_kun 4 points 1 year ago

GILF is a thing tho, so, I guess some people are into that. I just hope the guy is into that.

[โ€“] ExploringLiterature 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Relationship age gap guideline is half your age plus 7, PROVIDED that the age of the person is around 21 y.o. Anything beyond that is difficult, for a number of reasons.

[โ€“] Henry 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Oddly specific that you even came up with a formula, seriously though what are you onto man ๐Ÿ˜…

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

that is quite a known fornula. been mentioned in media many times. there is even an xkcd of that. a tv reference from 2009: you know the rule

[โ€“] ExploringLiterature 3 points 1 year ago

It is oddly specific, but I too only got that from the interwebs. I just added the 21 y.o. as, well you know, people tend to take things like these too far sometimes cough Epstein cough

[โ€“] Periwinkledot 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Kakabasa ko ng pocketbook dati, ok ako hanggang 15-20 years. Pero habang tumatanda ako, lumiliit din yung acceptable gap ko (for myself lang ha). It now stands at 10 years for someone older than me, kung younger siguro hanggang 5 years. Hindi ako kasingganda ni lola sa post ๐Ÿ˜Š

[โ€“] 65gmexl3 5 points 1 year ago

same 10yrz prefer ko. kung over dun ang partner ko, ok lang basta ba madami sya salapi LOL

[โ€“] decadentrebel 5 points 1 year ago

Epic headline

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Nagkakilala sila ng 26 si lalake at 69 si umm bride?

[โ€“] Periwinkledot 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Actually, nagpakasal for the first time.

[โ€“] yeontura 4 points 1 year ago
[โ€“] wabafee 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Love is uhh.. blind talaga, but I do hope they will enjoy it until it last, having woman already in 70s will bring a lot of baggage to their relationship.

Edit: Babae ofw pala, masahesta si lalaki