Hey welcome! Thanks for messaging. I'm surprised that you aren't able to see the other messages in the group. I know I posted least four or five messages and had several responses.
You might want to make sure that your instance isn't defederated from lemmy.world
I was diagnosed around 7 years ago, after waiting months hoping that the bleeding would just stop on its own. That first flare ended after a year on prednisone. Now I'm on Humira and Lialda , and have only had three or four smaller flares since then.
I'd love to check out your app when you are closer to completion. Thanks for messaging!