who do i contact for this? what do i say? please help if u can. thanks.
Overlooking the fact all of these can be answered by Google very easily - look, the fact that you're going to other instances and asking similar question, and when people ask where abouts is it and you say : "sAfeTy DriVing SchOoL", i don't think you should be worried about duit kopi. You have bigger things to worry about ie. (i) your personal family drama, (ii) your driving competency.
Don't think anyone here is suited to assist you in these matters.
Your parents wanting you to bribe, and the "safety driving school" actually being bribed or is open to be bribed is also very different..