this post was submitted on 30 Jan 2025
442 points (99.1% liked)

Memes

8730 readers
1273 users here now

Post memes here.

A meme is an idea, behavior, or style that spreads by means of imitation from person to person within a culture and often carries symbolic meaning representing a particular phenomenon or theme.

An Internet meme or meme, is a cultural item that is spread via the Internet, often through social media platforms. The name is by the concept of memes proposed by Richard Dawkins in 1972. Internet memes can take various forms, such as images, videos, GIFs, and various other viral sensations.


Laittakaa meemejä tänne.

founded 2 years ago
MODERATORS
 
top 10 comments
sorted by: hot top controversial new old
[–] 9point6 26 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

No one deserves your immediate attention at the drop of a message

We need to re-normalise asynchronous communication

[–] [email protected] 43 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Who cares? Texting is meant to be a convenience, not something that demands my attention. That’s the beauty of texting vs a phone call - I have time to think and do other things before replying

[–] _sideffect 8 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I agree to a limit. If I'm just posting stupid yt videos to someone then who cares.

But if I'm talking to someone and they don't answer for 4 days(I give 1 day or so, personally), I'm not bothering with that person again.

Texting is a form of communication, just like email is.

You can say it's a "convenience" all you want, but so is the telephone then.

Why don't you just walk to the person's house and speak to them?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Counter point, if someone needs to speak to me urgently why aren't they calling/visiting?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

I'll be hiding from solicitors. If you need to speak to me, break into my house and start the conversation at gunpoint.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Agreed. I dont get why people get upset by these things (assuming its not a time-sensitive discussion, of course)

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asynchronous_communication

[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Only 4 days, amateur. I'm so bad at talking I endup ghosting everyone. :3

[–] affiliate 4 points 1 day ago

exactly. 96 hours is rookie numbers.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I'll do this but it will be years later

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

Same legitimately the once every two years I log into my dusty old insta account and see I have a message.