NTA
husband unilaterally ended our relationship
At this point, I don't think you owe him anything. Move out with a clear conscience.
Post about true events in your life where you ask the question “Am I the asshole in this situation?”
NTA
husband unilaterally ended our relationship
At this point, I don't think you owe him anything. Move out with a clear conscience.
NTA
You said that you wanted to move out and he threatened you. He’s obviously not going to agree to what you want which would mean that he automatically gets what he wants.
That’s not fair or reasonable.
NTA. Might want to consider getting a lawyer.
NTA. He ended the relationship, you have no obligation to stay with him. It may be wise for you to start handling the legal aspects of this if you haven't already. Get a lawyer and make some formal custody agreements would be a good start if you haven't.
NTA GTF away from that abusive controlling lunatic.
Nta.
You two are divorced. In fact it would be usual that everyone lives separate. The easy thing to do is: don’t tell until everything is fixed. He keeps living where you currently are, you find a place nearby (which is a courtesy, actually). Nearby for the kids, that they can visit you both without much struggle, but separate for your well-being.
Omg, absolutely NTA. He wants you to live there in a walled off apartment as free childcare and you can't even use the kitchen.
He wants to be single without being a single dad.
What is this showing your kids?
Contact a divorce lawyer and then move out. Don't let him take advantage of you.
NTA, he's being unreasonable. It's normal and healthy for you both to move on.