Jio both out for lunch, then midway you ditch both lol 🙈
this post was submitted on 28 Jul 2023
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I sokong this idea.
Doesn't have to be lunch. Could be a post-work outing with another one or two colleagues who are good at breaking the ice and knows the agenda.
And then ditch F31 and M28 halfway.
Great great, will try this method! Bcs I’m not very close to M28, maybe will get his close colleagues to go along as well!
I've heard the Japanese dating protocol is you get one of his friends to casually ask what he thinks of her. And then if the signals are positive, then you can make it known you've heard she might be interested in being asked out. Ideally this step is indirect too, because you get told not by your teammate, but by someone who is friends with your teammate. So everyone's "face" is always maintained.
Seems like way too many steps though. Maybe just tell him to do a little dance
This sounds practical! Thanks for the idea~
Invite both of them out to an event and hope for the best. That's how I ended up my boyfie.
hahahahah ok! que sera sera hehe
eh eh eh update us on the after stories ya. thanks haha
hahahahah haven’t got to it yet! but will update!!
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