Brisbane

Discord is just an easy real time communication platform. It is not suited to anything that is not in the moment. It should only augment a community, but so many people use it as a replacement for one.

Definitely my experience with discord also. It sucks. Maybe I'm just a grumpy old fart.

Only issue I have with Lemmy is that there isn't enough of us here from the Brisbane community. Luckily(?) My 3rd party Reddit app is currently still alive so I've found myself going back there a bit. I even had another (boost is full Telstra) argument the other day for old times sake

Obligatory "not from Brisbane".

I agree. If it weren't for the fact that a couple of gaming communities I'm involved in are built around that platform, I wouldn't use it. It's pretty bad for anything other than banter amongst mates, and if you are a less active user and/or out of the loop it is genuinely terrible. Plus it has a pretty dismal privacy policy.

Discord is just a shitty version of Teamspeak with some forum/chat features. Its main success is due to it being free, and pretty much any idiot can use it. That being said, it was never really meant to be anything like Reddit. More of a hub for gaming communities and such. It's handy for my roleplaying groups, videogame stuff, and keeping up with some close friends, but that's about it.

The teenagers both use discord and they love it. I gave it a go and hated it.

I don't have the time or energy for chat room style interactions any more. In years past, sure, I was there hitting F5 with the best of the oldies wanting to see the chat updates but not now. If I've got a few minutes to open lemmy and have a read, that's what I do.

I do hear you though about the lack of content.

We all need to start posting when we hear the choppers and I will be here to remind everyone to turn their lights on next time it rains.

All in all, impressive rant.

A/S/L?

Discord also doesn't let you delete your data, thus breaking GDPR. They need something to sell to data brokers.

Look, I don't think you've said anything here that I disagree with. Discord is not a replacement for forum-like services like Lemmy or Reddit. It's fundamentally a space for more ephemeral discussions. The conversation is current. It's chatter.

This does have the significant disadvantage of being less discoverable. People can't search on Google (or on the site's own search) to turn up a post with a bunch of comments helping them with the problem they're experiencing, even if others have already discussed it themselves. For any even vaguely archival purpose, you lose a lot of value.

But that doesn't mean they're worthless. Ephemeral discussion is such an incredibly natural human experience. I've used Discord for a long time in very small groups, but post-Reddit-implosion is the first time I've been in a big Discord that I actually pay attention to. And I have absolutely loved it. The Brisbane Discord community is amazing. People are funny and genuine. I can discuss something that's just throwaway that I don't want people to have to be as involved in as it might be back in the day if I was going to create a Reddit post.

By virtue of being as ephemeral as it is, if you are having a serious conversation, you can have a much better back-and-forth, more similar to how you might with an in-person communication, but with a little more room for there to be two or more separate lines of discussion simultaneously. For certain conversations, this isn't as good. I couldn't (or could, but it would not be as idiomatic or be as useful if I did) write this multi-paragraph detailed reasoning on Discord. But there are other kinds of conversation where I think it's very useful, especially if it involves a lot of back-and-forth between the two parties. For a simple tech support conversation, for example, it's easier if you can ask the original querent if they've tried , and they can quickly reply back with their answer. Because Discord is basically synchronous, both parties can suppose that the other is probably still around to respond soon. On Lemmy, I might be much more likely to post a reply and not check the same thread again until the next day, or many hours later. It's fine for what it is, but if someone has a pressing question, that's no good for them.

We just had this in the Brisbane Discord, with a friendly yank who joined in wanting to know more about our city. There was a lot more back-and-forth and discussion about things that I think we would have ever seen on a more permanent site like Reddit.

It's much, much worse for "future interneters". But it's kinda better for the current audience.

If you want pictures of cute animals, I think Discord is a more natural platform than Lemmy for that, as long as you're on the right server. People can just throw up their pictures with much less effort involved than on Lemmy. You don't need to think about it as something that's going to stick around for a while. Just chuck it up there and whoever sees it will see it. As a viewer, you can just scroll up through the #pets channel to see as much as you like.

In some ways, Discord can be better for getting your hot takes seen. On Reddit, if you joined a thread hours later, the person you reply to might see it (unless their comment was super popular and they turned off notifications for their sanity), but nobody else will, because it'll be buried way down. On Discord, the latest comment is at the bottom, so everyone will see it. Discord is more supportive of that kind of hot takes & shitposting than Reddit is, for this reason.

or to hear someone lie about how the northside is better than the southside

This depends on whether you believe a true statement can ever be a lie. I would agree that someone who believes something that's incorrect cannot be lying (they're just mistaken), but does the inverse hold? I don't think it does, which would mean it's impossible for you to ever hear a lie about how the northside is better than the southside.

TL;DR they're both different and serve different purposes. Also: northside is best side.

I agree, discord has swallowed up so many communities that used to be open and searchable. It makes me really sad.

I've never considered using discord as a replacement for Reddit or Lemmy. I use it all the time but for communicating with people I know or have something in common with in different social circles. You're not wrong but for me it's like saying pillows suck because they don't bang in nails properly.

Its just a platform. How you use it is what matters.

I got banned twice on my regular account (by discord admins, not group/server mods) that I had in some dear group chats and one or two servers. The reasons for both was essentially, "spamming/bot account".

Now, I'm no spam expert, but I don't think posting an average 4 or 5 messages an hour for maybe maximum 20 messages in one day counts as spamming, especially if they were relevant to the topics.

I think the main reason some communities want to move to Discord is because they're probably not confident maintaining their own platform/servers/infrastructure.

But yeah, Discord sucks. It's privacy policy is horrendous. Matrix and Discourse are open-source alternatives but yeah, you have to maintain your own infrastructure (ideally).

This post has to be a "me me".