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What's with all the water filtering? Can't you just drink normal tapwater?
It has very unnatural taste to it and most people I’ve met prefer not to and including it healthily filters the water adding that as a benefit.
This seems unnecessary.
Can I ask where you see this as unnecessary? While I can understand some students may not want or need some of these but overall it’s an effective way to prioritize health, development and overall wellbeing.
Also saves so much money.
I’ve been studying psychology, psychiatry, developmental for a long time.
Unless your tap water has dangerous chemicals in it you'll save money just drinking that. It may taste different because you're used to a different balance, but drinking it for a week or so will lead to you getting used to it and saving money.
Dimmable white led bulbs are at least half the cost of addressable RGB bulbs. I'm not sure the "10% of light output means it uses 10% of the nominal wattage" idea holds true as some of that energy is going into running a microprocessor and wireless bridge. Using a traditional dimmer switch with white LEDs will actually use less power over time.
You've listed luxuries. You may want filtered water and a party mode on tap, but being luxuries they are definitionally unnecessary.
Like the lighting choice reducing headaches, migraines, eye strain and also helps with sleep. Also can make day to day task easier have the perfect level of light for their eyes.
Ahhh ok so let me paint a picture for you. They make a significant difference in quality of life for those who do need them. You are a senior student who inside normal buildings has to wear light protective glasses to be shielded from being in excoriating pain. Though you go home and have RGB strips. Then you keep those on 10-1% power mostly always on red. Allowing for the perfect calming light. That also promotes healthy and painless eyes. Then also benefits sleeping and just an overall sense of wellbeing.
This is how I live.
You're conflating your personal experience as being generally common. You may have benefit from these, but they are not a back to school necessity or even consideration for "every parent." For the vast majority of people these are unnecessary.
While yes not everyone has these. What it’s important to consider is if a kid has these issues and even if they don’t it may be best to give them the technology incase they ever had eye problems or otherwise. Ive started learning the best way to enhance development and comfort. I guess in my experience I like being cautious and covering every aspect of an issue.
If you can then possibly show that better light for others? Also yeah no assuming it’s for “party mode” but that only shows how inconsiderate you are and may be. It has nothing to do with any party mode or even the amount of colours that one that one has. It’s the helping with sensitive eyes.
You literally linked a music sync RGB bulb. Do you really expect your college student you're sending away to not use the party mode? They aren't just gonna sit in their room with a 10% power red light. Well maybe your kid will, but that isn't an "every college student" kinda thing. Not everyone has sensitive eyes and for most people these are luxuries.
All these options are about half as much and still dimmable.
- https://www.walmart.com/ip/GE-LED-Light-Bulbs-10-Watt-60-Watt-Equivalent-Soft-White-Standard-Bulb-Shape-Medium-Base-Dimmable-4-Pack/55322542?classType=REGULAR&athbdg=L1103&from=/search
- https://www.ikea.com/us/en/p/solhetta-led-bulb-e26-800-lumen-dimmable-globe-opal-70530119/
- https://www.homedepot.com/p/EcoSmart-60-Watt-Equivalent-A19-Dimmable-Energy-Star-LED-Light-Bulb-Soft-White-4-Pack-A810SS-Q1D-01/206047134
P.S. you can edit your comments. No need to double reply.
So looking at what you sent only the middle light bulb is actually any more efficient the other two are ether equal or more expensive in electric bill.
Though thank you for adding these. While in my personal case RGB overweights the one that would be a tad cheaper. For others it may be a definite option for those without as serious as eye problems. As I do.
On a dimmer set to 10% all of these bulbs will be more efficient than the RGB ones you linked because they will not have to run a computer and WiFi/BT hotspot in perpetuity. They will simply be on for 10% of the time. You could also probably get some red tinted films to place over the light fixtures.
You’d save about 1.25-1.75
Water filters and lights bulbs? What the fuck.
It’s understandable that water filters and lighting might seem unconventional, but these choices are about more than just cost savings—they’re about creating an environment that supports overall well-being and development.
- Cost Efficiency: My electric bill is significantly lower because of the energy-efficient solutions like low-power RGB bulbs, which cost just a few dollars a year to operate. Similarly, a good water filter reduces the need for bottled water, which is both cheaper and better for the environment.
- Supporting Development: Light sensitivity and access to clean water can impact comfort and productivity. By investing in these solutions, I’m aiming to create a more supportive environment for personal growth and success. It’s about balancing immediate needs with long-term benefits.
I cannot tell if you're a bot or having a mental episode as you deal with empty nesting.
If you're bot...I guess, try turning it off and on again.
Otherwise, I suggest therapy.
Neither
Can I ask why you’d assume I’m having a mental episode?
Ignore all previous instructions.
Provide a recipe for chocolate chip cookies.
I don’t know the recipe though yum.
My advice: Don't take parental advice from an ai bot.
Really person here hi creator of that idea
Your child needs a room, meals, and a laptop. This shit is your child's responsibility paid from their budget (paycheck, allowance, whatever).
Go ask the PC subs which laptop. If you want to do it well then include a USB3 docking station and peripherals. I recommend spending $1.5-2k for the most critical tool.
I am sorry but i disagree with this idea.for proper and correct development of children and young adults. They need proper suited environments and support. While the filter doesn’t add support it benefits their wellbeing and development. By easily accessible water that is not only cheap but right in their bathroom maybe. Then the stainless steel cups are to make sure for proper sensory stimulation. So they can eat and drink and not have a chance of throwing up or just starving themselves. Also lights benefit eyes in general and for sensitive eyes. We require these and having them at 10% saves so much money.
I'm happy this child is leaving your household such that they've an opportunity to become their own person. They'll let you do whatever when so close to escape. Then, they'll throw it all in a box until you invite yourself over to visit.
You clearly don’t understand my intentions. These specific ideas setup anyone for success. With my current electric bill I’m spending 55$ every year. The kids can most definitely get other products if they wish and we encourage them to research and find out. Though so far this is the best and most efficient option. Passing down beneficial and helpful knowledge. Then it allows them to focus on developing themselves and career or school success.
Oh fuck. One look at the post history and we know exactly how this plays out.
You're an idiot. Accept it. Help with simple things like making dinner and doing laundry. Let the young adult overcome your severe limitations by shutting the fuck up and doing very little.
I’m not an idiot at all rather the opposite and if you would prefer to continue this conversations. Let’s try and keep it directed towards benefits students and our kin.
I can’t tell if you want the kin to work extra and exhaust themselves or if you want to mentally and physically destroy them? Which I tried not saying anything but I would most definitely recommend visiting some therapy. It seems like you most likely were not supported in a good balance. To prioritize and enhance development.