Asklemmy

I was handed a really surprisingly thin cup in the Frankfurt airport, and it completely squished open as I grabbed it. I apologised and offered to help clean up within seconds, but first I reacted.

Bro was nice about it, and gave me another one. That might not be what you were asking about, but it is a customer service thing.

No, but that's because my brain is weird. I have a lot of difficulty getting angry, usually I just get really frustrated but it almost never boils over into actual anger. Even when it does I'm not that angry. Sounds good probably, but every emotion is useful and it tends to lead to me not standing up for myself.

I was the lowest rung CSR punching bag for many years, so no. I think that whole experience is what conditioned me to do what I've always done when I have bad service: cancel, chargeback (if necessary), move on. I've probably only left one or two bad reviews in my life, just to warn others of egregiously unsafe practices. One of those business reached out afterwards to "make it right". Nope, no contact.

Those years also taught me that if you fill out a customer service survey and you give anything less than straight 10's across the board then you are actively hurting the employee.

Nope. I know it's a person on the other end that's probably confused and figuring stuff out to the best of the ability. I try not to get upset because I've been there.

There has been four times I remember where I've either lost my temper or just got really frustrated when contacting support teams. Sorry if this seems long winded, I like to vent every time I can about some of these.

The first time was when I tried to contact Samsung because I was having an issue with the Galaxy Store. At the time when I was trying to contact them they only had two contact methods, which were by phone and through some form of a support forum. As someone who hates talking to people through phone calls and prefers to just use emails, I opted into at least trying the support forum. As I expected, Samsung's support team ignored my post and I only got replies from users who either had no idea what I was talking about or were just bots.

I just gave up trying to contact them after that and I haven't used the Galaxy Store very much. If you're interested in knowing what the issue is, basically, the "recommended for you" section keeps recommending me apps that I've already rating, even if I gave them a low rating.

The second was when I tried to contact the support team for Hideout because I couldn't get videos on their website to work in any web browser on my tablet. I did everything I could to provide as much information as I could, even providing screenshots whenever I thought it would be helpful. After a few days of doing everything they asked me to and continuing to provide as much information and as many screenshots as I could, the CEO of Hideout came into the conversation and proceeded ignore everything I stated up to that point and insinuated that I wasn't being cooperative because one of the browsers I was using "looked outdated" and that the issue would have been fixed if I just updated that browser.

I don't remember exactly how I responded but I remember calling them incompetent because YouTube working perfectly fine on my tablet but Hideout didn't and reminding them that I stated multiple times that the browsers I tested were reinstalled before testing to make sure that my settings wasn't causing any conflicts, so none of the browsers could have been outdated. They never responded after that and eventually marked the ticket as being solved when it very clearly wasn't. I stopped using Hideout after this but I probably still wouldn't be using it because sometime after that I heard that they stopped paying their users or something like that.

The third time was when I contacted Discord's support team because I had an issue where email notifications just randomly stopped working for me. They had me try all sorts of things, like contacting the admins of the servers I joined and making sure that my Discord inbox was cleared regularly. This also included changing my email address on Discord, which caused them to temporarily refuse helping me for reasons that I don't understand. After I asked them why they were punishing me after doing what they requested of me, they claimed that there was a miscommunication on their end and continued trying to help me.

Eventually, they determined that my issue needed to be looked at by the dev team and sent the information to them. I was expecting them to either fix the issue or at least tell me how to fix it on my end but when they responded about a week later, they gave me some bogus answer, stating that "email notifications don't work for servers with more than 5000 users". I know for sure that this was a lie because I was told by the admins for some servers that the email notifications are working for other users but the rep kept ignoring what I was saying and refused to fix the issue. I just gave up trying to reason with them and filled out the survey they gave me, even though I'd imagine that no one at Discord actually read it.

The fourth time was when I contacted Google because I was having an issue with the Play Store. The issue was that there was an app that I wasn't able to review because when I tried to review it the first time, it glitched out and only used half of my review so I deleted it but I kept getting error messages every time I tried reviewing it again. I was using Firefox in Ubuntu at the time and I figured that the issue was something on their end and that contacting them would be quick and easy but I was wrong.

I was emailing them about and fourth for a little over a month because they kept giving me suggestions that were irrelevant to my issue, requesting that I use features that didn't exist on any of my android devices (which still don't as far as I'm aware) and forgetting everything relevant to my issue, even what my issue was in the first place. At one point, I thought that they just gave up and redirected me to a bot that ghosted me because all of the emails they sent prior had the name of the rep I was talking to and a message about some survey they'd have me fill out when the conversation was done. I received about three emails that didn't contain either of those before they just stopped emailing me entirely.

Given that I thought that they wouldn't respond, I decided to reply to the last email they sent with an angry email. I have once again forgotten my exact words but I remember expressing how I felt and that if they're not willing to help me with my issue, that I'd want them to just give me the survey they mentioned in previous emails. They did respond after about a week but I really just wanted the conversation to end, so I repeatedly told them that I didn't want to talk to them anymore and after a few emails they ended the conversation and gave me the survey. While I have no idea if they actually did anything directly but the issue seemed to be fixed about 6 months after that.

Honestly yeah not blow up levels of anger more passive aggressive with a hint of sarcasm when I was talking to them instead. It happened when I tried getting help at an at&t store to port out my number from at&t prepaid. Yes I know now its not the same branch or something but damn they were rude and at least could've told me who to call. Iirc they were watching a sports game so they probably just wanted to rush me out. At&t prepaid's reps were nice though just thick accents.

Yes and yes. It just depends on when and how it's done. It worked wonders with my medical insurance. My Doctors weren't too happy yet my health improved.

N is for NIGHTMARE