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The original was posted on /r/aitah by /u/Remote-Air-1700 on 2023-07-17 20:46:24+00:00.
Explanation- coming up I have a family gathering which has all my dads side. It consists of 4 houses and my grandparents ( 2 kids and 2 parents in each household). All of them apart from one aunt and her son have been so kind and try their best to remember my name and my pronouns. I have a nickname that my sister gave me when we were toddlers and it stuck. I let my household and my dads side use the nickname with the exception of the aunt and cousin. They have hated me since i was young and when i came out they purposely got me “feminine gifts” for Christmas. They purposely comment on my body and my insecurities. They stare me dead in the eyes and call me my deadname and i respond. They have lost the privilege to call me my family nickname. I am and will be jamie to them. I wont answer them or correct them because they have been corrected and told thousands of times.
There is so much more 😭