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I recently started looking into hosting my own email, and the suggestions I got were very encouraging, with a lot of easy solutions paired with some unavoidable gotchas.

It is has become apparent that for me to do this right, I need my own domain name, maybe a VPS or host.

I was about to purchase from Infomaniak, which also had an email solution I liked, but one the prices in euro was throwing me off and two it defeats the purpose of controlling and running my own internet services.

So, I will skip the email hosting and give a try at running my own.

Still, is Infomaniak a good buy? I am going crazy thinking up a good name, and settles on the extension me since it will be a personal thing, but not use my real name since I am going to avoid that shit until I really need to.

Any help would be welcome. Thank you.

UPDATE: I bought a domain name off of Porkbun, which was surprisingly pleasant. I am a sucker for cute guided experiences.

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[–] Oxff 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

May I suggest mailinabox.email for easy email administration. I've been using it for a long time and it manages the hard bits :).

Sorry I can't comment on Infomaniak I've never used them.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It has been the top recommended thing, so I will set it up. Hell, I might set them all up just to see what I like.

[–] Oxff 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That's a great idea, please keep us posted with your adventure.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

If I had any sense I would go through the trouble of documenting and BLOGGING what I do.

Except I already said that blogging killed the internet, and nobody needs more poorly written memoirs of their struggles getting something to work.

If I do something interesting or cool, I will let you know!

[–] Oxff 1 points 1 year ago

Sorry realised I already recommended mailinabox before, Doh.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I like clouflare for domain hosting. They have a lot of great tools that are included.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Hm, I will check them out then.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Practically every recommendation I've seen on buying a domain is either:

  • PorkBun
  • CloudFlare

These two use very straightforward pricing, with no gotchas.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I can’t say I’ve heard of infomaniak, but I use NameSilo and have heard good things about Namecheap. I prefer to have my domains hosted somewhere that focuses on being good at that and host my other stuff elsewhere (such as ProtonMail for email or self hosted if you’re brave enough).

As for domain names, they’re pretty cheap if you choose one you don’t like! You can always get a new one later and reinforce knowing how to get it all setup. Personally, I do have one with my full name for professional settings, like giving out to my job or putting on my resume.

If you are interested in the privacy element, I highly suggest looking at ProtonMail and their SimpleLogin integration! It is great for having a unique email address per service you sign up for.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

(The following is second-hand experience) You should google "DKIM and SPF" before you embark on this journey. The tl;dr of it is that senders of email can (and do) end up blacklisted based on the IP Address of their mail server. If you run your mail server on (say) a.b.c.xx and a known spammer happens to rent a vps from the same provider at a.b.c.yy, you both end up blacklisted. The spammer moves on, whereas your emails fail t make it through other folks' spam filters, and there won't be anything you can do about it.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago

I think those are things that my domain provider basically automates, it is part of the appeal. You are right, I do need to know how that works so that I can actually run an email server effectively and not damage the reputation my IP Address may have.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

When I first started with self hosting an easy, and actually free last I looked, way to get email at your own domain was via ZoHo. Fairly simple way to start. True self hosting of email can be a pretty arcane bunch of work, starting with that most home connections are on the Spamhause ZEN list. So far the easiest have been either with Neth Server or using a dockerized mailcow, one is bulky and rather opaque, but easy totie to a domain, the second is a bit more comprehensive but less user friendly sometimes. Plenty of other ways of course all the way to rolling your own from dovecot/postfix on out if inclined.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Thx for mentioning infomaniak, I'm looking for alternatives to Mailbox.org as they had to increase their prices. I've tried self hosting but somehow it always has been a hassle, might be just me though. Also mailinabox wasn't around back then. I've got my domain at namecheap, they've got all the tools and a super cheap whoisguard service. Prices depend on the tld you're looking for, so you'll have to look it up.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Hm, I could have looked at namecheap too. I ended up going with Porkbun because of well... it is cute and lovely. Not a great reason to choose a service, but it came highly recommended.