Asklemmy

Federation is when instances exchange information. For example, you posted to lemmy.ml, while using lemmy.world, and I'm seeing this post and replying to you from lemmy.max-p.me. That's federation in action, in this case with 3 instances involved. It runs on my server entirely in my control, I'm the admin of it. It's completely independent from lemmy.ml and lemmy.world but they all talk to eachother.

An instance is one website running lemmy. Lemmy.ml and lemmy.world are two examples. There's hundreds of them, all operating independently and sharing information.

Defederation is essentially when federation is cut off from a given server, think banning an entire instance essentially.

The fediverse is the name of this whole system: it's federation and universe smushed together, fediverse.

Cross-platform instances would be instances that can talk to multiple platforms. For example, Kbin lets you browse Lemmy threads and Mastodon microblogs from the same place. Mastodon users can somewhat see Lemmy posts. I've never seen it referred to as cross-platform though.

Fediverse is like the United Nations and instances are the countires. Countries with good relations communicate (federate) with each other but the ones that don't respect our values we might cut communications with (defederate). These defederated countries still continue to exist and there are people within those country that talk with eachother aswell as other countries they do get along with but they're essentially secluded from the rest of the world. However despite the defederation they still are in principle compatible with the rest of the world so we can open back the communication again if we so decide.

Other social media platforms like Instagram and Twitter are like the animal population; they too communicate within themselves but we don't have a common language and thus will always remain incompatible and can't ever federate with them and they (Twitter and Instagram) can't with each other either.

federation is a trust relationship.

In the context of fediverse, is server operators allowing other server operators to read and write between each other.

For example If Nextdoor federated with MySpace, a Nextdoor account could post something and a person on MySpace could see it in their feed.

The main idea of the fediverse is that there is one standard (eg. lemmy), with many servers running a copy of that standard with their own settings (instances). These instances all interact in a way that it seems to the user like a single server (federation). At times the owners of each instance will want to block other instances (defederation).

Federation: your post on lemmy.world is downloaded by my instance, my reply is sent to yours.

Defederation: your instance (through its admins) decides to disconnect from mine, I can’t see or interact with your stuff unless I make an account in your instance.

Fediverse: all of the different platforms that support federation (often with ActivityPub, but there are other protocols). Lemmy, mastodon, Pixelfed, Bookwyrm, etc. See: https://joinfediverse.wiki/What_are_Fediverse_projects%3F

Cross-platform I would typically assume refers to different platforms being able to talk to each other using ActivityPub, like Lemmy and Mastodon can do. Features may work but with quirks because of the ways they implement protocol. How well one platform works with another is actually undefined unless work is made to make them compatible. An example is Lemmy and Kbin, originally their upvotes and downvotes used different features of the protocol and were not compatible.

The explanation given here are very good. I just want to had add that theoretically, any Lemmy instance can communicate with another instance from another fediverse software but in practice, developers haven't had the chance yet to make sure every feature is compatible with the each every other software.
If you want to try sending message across the different instances and softwares of the fediverse without spamming or flooding people discussion spaces there is a dedicated community: [email protected]

Federation is one website simultaneously hosting and displaying content from another. Defederation is rejecting or rescinding federation. Not sure about the last.