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I feel like my house is constantly a fucking mess. My wife and I work 80 hours between us and we have a 2 year old and I feel like it's constantly a mess.

We do what we can and often spend a couple hours on a weekend tidying but it's a losing battle.

How do you cope/keep on top of things?

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Similar hours, no kids but 2 dogs and 2 cats.

A Roomba and a housekeeper once a month to do the big things (dust, bathrooms, floors). Worth every penny.

I think having an isolated area for kids toys or an easy to dump bucket to throw everything in would probably help the chaos that I see in other parents' homes but as a childfree person I'm the last who should give advice on that so feel free to laugh and ignore that idea.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

No, I don't struggle, because I feel no compulsion to keep it tidy in the first place :)

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I do! But having scheduled company over for dinner and an RPG session once a week has helped me get over the procrastination to do the bare minimum to keep the house presentable.

[–] ext23 1 points 1 year ago

I don't have kids and live alone in Tokyo. Space is limited so keeping things neat and tidy is a must. Also idk I just can't relax if I know there is still some small housework to be done (dishes, etc.).

If you have two year old I think you can be forgiven for a bit of chaos! Don't stress.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Yes. Same situation as you but a 3 year old. I gave up on the stuff my kid yeets everywhere and focus on dishes/kitchen/vacuuming. Then once every couple weeks I go on a rampage and pick up everything when I can’t take it any longer…

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (6 children)

I just hire 2 cleaning ladies.

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[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago

Don’t have a tip from my own life, but I know someone who has them 😊

I can highly recommend minimalmom on YouTube. She makes videos about family minimalism, and I think her info may be very useful.

She is currently running a course on minimalism that explains the concepts of it.

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