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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The most popular seem to be lighthearted, clever little truths, hidden in daily life.

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If you ask someone "why?" enough about a subject you don't agree on, eventually both of you will come to a conclusion (self.showerthoughts)

submitted 2 years ago by DominicHillsun to c/showerthoughts

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Many hold strong beliefs and opinions, however not many know the roots of their belief. If a person agrees to explore it, both of you will learn something new and fascinating. The problem is finding someone who wants to think and ask the questions. This goes for both. Many want to "convince" someone, but how much do you truly know about the thing you're trying to prove?

This also comes back to the "why?" game so many kids play. Parents get annoyed by it, but are they really annoyed at the game or their lack of knowledge depth? Play the game, find out how deep you lake of knowledge goes

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Whoops! I may have been guilty of this in the past

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Haven't we all.

More annoying though, is when you are really trying to understand the other person's point of view and they shut down debate by the accusation of sealioning. There should be a word for that

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

The word is "tired", I think. A lot of people just don't have the energy to answer the whys and are used to bad actors using why to exhaust them. So when it comes to things like racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia...etc.. it's a) an exhausting subject to begin with when its aimed at you, and b) a magnet for disingenuous bigots and trolls, so people will just shut down the conversation rather than try and explain their whole existence.

Honestly, I think isms are the only times when sealioning is sealioning, because that's the only time you get people arguing in such bad faith.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I think the only time I was accused of it was when trying to engage with a climate change denier. I wouldn't be surprised if they were tired. I'm not particularly sympathetic.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

Oh, that's a thing that status quo lovers do where they steal a useful term and turn it against us.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

"Rockin' all over the world"?