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I am so tired of the whole "cool pope" thing with Francis. It's 100% PR.

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[–] logicbomb 75 points 10 months ago (19 children)

The Vatican said Pope Francis had approved the document, which also reaffirms its condemnation of surrogacy, saying the practice represents “a grave violation of the dignity of the woman and the child”.

“A child is always a gift and never the basis of a commercial contract,” the document says. “Every human life, beginning with that of the unborn child in its mother’s womb, cannot be suppressed, nor become an object of commodity.”

The ethical problems with surrogacy are real, but they're not about the child. They're about income inequality and putting adult women through a physically traumatic, dangerous, and possibly life-changing experience for money. If we were able to use artificial wombs for "surrogacy" (I know, it's technically not the same thing), I think people would see it as nothing but a new type of fertility medicine.

[–] [email protected] 35 points 10 months ago (17 children)

My cousin did it because she wanted to help someone have a child. She didn’t do it for the money. When it’s a financial transaction, I see the issue.

[–] FlyingSquid 39 points 10 months ago (16 children)

It also helps LBGT couples who can't have children get them. I don't see an issue even if there is money involved if it is clearly not coerced.

[–] KeepFlying 8 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

I don't know how I feel about it overall (surrogacy, not gay people getting to have children, that's beautiful), but it's hard to be confident there's no coercion when money is involved. The money itself can be coercive especially if the surrogate is particularly in need of the money. I'm not sure it can always be "clear" it's not coerced.

[–] FlyingSquid 9 points 10 months ago (1 children)

In the U.S., where medical care is expensive, I think money to cover that should be expected.

[–] KeepFlying 9 points 10 months ago

Absolutely! And more to cover other expenses like maternity clothing, any comfort items to manage the pregnancy, additional dietary needs, and probably some more to help account for how traumatic a pregnancy can be and the body changes it causes.

I'm absolutely not advocating that a surrogate shouldn't get paid. Just that it's hard to separate payment from coercion in even the best situations.

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