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A bit of a rant, pre-sorry but so sad and annoyed right now.

Went to my favorite barber shop today. It's built on being nice, upscale, and men's haircuts. They do the works, good cuts, beard trimming/shaping, hot towel, the whole thing, and it's built to be man's place, they have a pool table, they have a couple of kegerators, they'll pour you a whiskey while you wait. Very nice.

(Note I say man's but really if you're a woman/any other gender and you like that sort of thing, then awesome. I mean man in the masculine sense)

Until recently this was my favorite place, but apparently it's gotten on the mom groups online and now the last few times I've gone it's just filled with children and moms. Where I could go and get a whiskey while I wait and find someone to shoot pool with, now kids are literally running around and as for the pool table they're just throwing the balls around. Meanwhile the moms are either talking with each other or hovering over Bradley getting his hair cut and how cute it is.

On top of it all, because there was a group of them instead of my normal 20 min wait it was almost a 2 hours wait. I just walked out.

I'm just so tired of it, this place obviously was built for adults but god forbid we have any adult places that aren't "actually meant for children". I mean obviously it was built for children, there's 2 kegs and a shelf of nice scotch but yes, bring all of your children here.

How come every place that used to be for adults is now a child zone? My favorite breweries used to be great places to let off steam after work and now I have kids playing tag in the middle of them. I flat out don't go to movies anymore because even the super late showings are just dumping grounds for inattentive parents to leave their kids. And god forbid you ever mention outside a community like this that you want to drink a beer without a kid running around or you're literally the devil who should be shunned.

Anyway, this isn't going anywhere specifically, I'm just really sad, and I didn't get my haircut today.

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[–] devilish 44 points 1 year ago (2 children)

That’s just bad business sense if they allow that to continue.

[–] [email protected] 35 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Except it sounds like it is tremendously busy and probably coining in the cash.

[–] MountainReason 7 points 1 year ago

This is the first answer in the whole chain that has made sense to me. Regardless of what type of parenting philosophy people subscribe to, businesses are going to do what makes money. It doesn't matter what everyone thinks is right or wishes would happen.

[–] ArtificialLink 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Sometimes it's not just about profits. Something a lot of companies could stabd to learn.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Principles don't pay the bills

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

My school principal never had trouble with her bills...

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

They do if the principles maintain an environment your customers can tolerate, thus keeping your customer base intact instead of seeing them go somewhere that doesn't have kids running around everywhere.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Who is bringing in more money, the people with the kids or without?

[–] Gullible 4 points 1 year ago

2 hour wait>20 minute wait. Unless the owner gets upset, the kids stay.

[–] ArtificialLink 1 points 1 year ago

Exactly the type of comment capitalism wants you to perpetuate

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

Right? They have a schtick that differentiates them. Keep it going.