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Do you believe in meritocracy? Why or why not? (lemmy.dbzer0.com)

submitted 9 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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This is the definition I am using:

a system, organization, or society in which people are chosen and moved into positions of success, power, and influence on the basis of their demonstrated abilities and merit.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago (1 children)

That's a very condescending comment. Maybe I came across as condescending too. Either way, if your criticism was supposed to be helpful, I'm sorry to say that it isn't. You didn't provide any evidence that I'm wrong. From my perspective, it sounds like you just don't understand me, so you decided to give up.

Anyway, I'm not that enthusiastic about debating strangers over the internet, I only replied because you sounded curious. So I'm equally happy to bid you farewell.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago

I'm sorry I caused you to feel that way.

From my perspective I had expectations I was speaking with someone who had intensely considered a governing system they were fond of and were intimate with its faults. Instead, I'm rather put out to be speaking with flashes of inspiration, as rapidly as they can form, to justify or mitigate any shortcomings.

While I might enjoy acting as a sounding board when expected, I'm feeling rather disappointed this wasn't a debate.

Debating may be the purest form of sharing and refining ideas. My comment was not out of malice, but I apologise for the rude response and letting my emotions get the better of me.