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[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago

Again, there isn't a single grant a female does not have access too, while males do not have the same access to all grants.

And those grants are for what?

But yes, males do get more grants for sports because, men play sports more often then females, and men normally enroll for sports mainly to get grants, not to become professional athletes.

Lol, okay so men have more access, but you're mad they don't have exclusive access?

third sentence, again no, men can communicate just fine, it's just when we do, we are seen as lesser men. Stigmatization.

And the consequences of that is........men not communicating.

iv told close female friends and male friends of mine about me going to therapy and most times after iv done so, the people I told treat me differently. They treat me like a snowflake.

Sounds like you just have shitty friends.

Also, most of my friends are actually female belive it or not. I have a very small group of friends, and it's nearly a 2:1 ratio of females to male. I love this so much, you don't know fuck all about me, yet you assume so much

Well, you were the one who said you were completely alone and isolated and only relied on the comfort of your cats for companionship. Now you say you have a bunch of gal pals, but they call you snowflake when you tell them you in counseling?

Jesus christ you must consider yourself a victim.

Lol, why? I have great talks about mental health with my homies all the time. I'm a happily married man, with a wife who cares about how I feel just as I care about how she feels.

Also what echo chamber am I in? What gives you this impression?

FEMALE! It's a dead giveaway my friend. Also the whole grant and suicide thing is a pretty popular trope in those circles, despite being pretty easy to explain if you actually did a little research.

never really had a father figure. I was the only male in a house of 4. 1 mother and 2 sisters. I raised with a female mindset, and did it ever cause me problems trying to make male friends.

There is no uniform mindset for men or women. If you spend all your effort caring about what people think of you, or worrying if you're being manly enough, you're never going to find the time to actually find someone or something that makes you happy.

is blaming men for everything.

Alternatively who's fault is it? Are women responsible for our mental health? Who else can be responsible for your mental health other than yourself?