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[–] LazyBane 69 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (45 children)

Backwards thinking.

Andrew Tate isn't creating these young men out of well adjusted people.

Young men today face a mountain of issues with zero sympathy from the people or institutions around them. And grifters prey on these men.

Having grown up in the "teach boys not to rape" era of progrssive rhetoric, it's actually insane to see all these people just insist being in a guy's world is all sunshine and rainbows and all these men are just awful people falling of their own accord.

Young men get told some pretty damaging things growing up, even from progressive people.

Everyone has problems, lots of people are coming of age all kinds of fucked up, and we can't fix this by implying it's all their own doing.

[–] Yewb 31 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

You mean there is more to this than a black and white interpretation of the issues??

Young men in many areas are ridiculously hopeless with despair - its not really something that is talked about.

[–] irreticent -3 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Young men in many areas are ridiculously hopeless with despair - its not really something that is talked about.

With uncontrolled climate change slowly destroying the world as we know it, can you blame them for being hopeless with despair?

[–] Xanis 0 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

You just revealed a lot more than I think you realize.

Climate change isn't part of the discussion.

No one is trying to blame anyone in this context.

We're talking about cultural issues that are tied in with the mental and emotional growth of people.

So very much hate and malicious intent is created by unstable people brought up to sincerely believe that what they do and believe is right. Often this is due to some religious indoctrination, though other reasons exist. Few are those who are truly evil at their core. In another group we have the confused and the uncertain trying to just exist in a world that is often cruel and unfair. As they grow and in moments of extreme vulnerability they reach out for answers.

As an online community one of the healthiest activities we can do is talk about these things. Express that shit is hard and offer encouragement and positive, safe places away from conmen and manipulators, as much as we are able. To do that we need to focus where we can.

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