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The world has experienced its hottest day on record, according to meteorologists.

The average global temperature reached 17.01C (62.62F) on Monday, according to the US National Centres for Environmental Prediction.

The figure surpasses the previous record of 16.92C (62.46F) - set back in August 2016.

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[–] mayo 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I don't totally understand this either, though recently maybe more I understand it better. Seems like people cannot live without those things. I know someone who started crying when she realized she couldn't spend as much money as before (only to use the crying to get more money to buy things). Or my sister, who asks my parents for money all the time so she can maintain her chosen lifestyle. If she can't do that then life becomes difficult. It boggles my mind that 'difficult' is not being able to vacation twice a year but whatever.

The stress that less-vulnerable people experienced during covid when the main thing they had to do was not expand their social life for a year or two was a good example of how people are. The anger at not being able to go to the bar every weekend was nuts to me.

Few people can live a monastic life and feel like they are fulfilled, and fewer if any will feel good about that kind of life if they are forced into it. So who and how are they making those choices? We aren't taught to be frugal, we're taught to spend, it's our education towards living a "good life".

I think if you got people to stop eating meat and driving 2 blocks to the grocery store they'd grow depressed, frustrated, productivity would drop, birth rates would drop, life expectancy would drop. People need that stuff to feel good about their lives, and if you want to take it away you either need a near perfect competitor or take it away by force.

[–] Nataratata 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

People do these things to fight negative emotions. If you want people to change their ways being arrogant and not showing any empathy won't help.

Anybody who is dependent on consumerism got to that point because society sells these things like tasty food, vacation, alcohol, tech gadgets, etc., as an easy fix for pain and other internal struggles. It's not about teaching them to be frugal. Almost everybody has something they rely on to deal with their negative emotions, but it's easier to see in others than in ourselves.

[–] mayo 2 points 1 year ago

Oh I guess I wasn't clear, but I absolutely see this in myself. That's how I came to this conclusion recently because I've been cutting back so much and I realized that I can't, I just can't. I need a beer on the weekend, I need to enjoy a meal at a restaurant every once in a while, I love the convenience of using a car to get somewhere.

But I am for sure judgy of people who seem to make zero effort and take any intrusion on their lifestyle to be 'too much'. I mean driving 2 blocks to the grocery store? Really. They are able bodied people.

[–] mayo 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

What? Arrogant how? I feel like we're saying the same thing here.

[–] Nataratata 3 points 1 year ago

Sorry, I didn't mean this on you specifically. Just that we can not tell people (as a society) to just live more frugal without addressing the overall problems that drive so many into consumerism. It's a bit like how people treat drug addicts. I see the same in the recent climate debate. Instead of focusing on the root issue, it is reduced to judging other people's morals or character.