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I don't know but I think there is very little "help" or prevention for pedophilia and plenty of persecution and prosecution. Do you think that should change? How should it change? Should someone like yourself be able to find help to not commit pedophilia and if so what should that look like?
ETA: Sorry I misused some words. I'm not very knowledgeable about this topic and defer to those who are.
It absolutely should!
We absolutely need more therapy programs for minor-attracted people, more of the competent therapists, less social stigma (and please, stop calling child molesters pedophiles and child abuse pedophilia, that's not helpful and not true!), and probably softer reporting laws, too.
For example, reporting past offences may bring more harm than good, scaring off those who want to change. Similar with the consumption of CSAM - it is bad, but reporting it leads to people not being able to talk about it directly, which hurts prevention efforts, exacerbating the issue. Etc.
Hi there, I'm also a pedophile. What does "committing pedophilia" look like? Pedophilia is an unchosen attraction to children. Child molestation/abuse is something that some pedophiles (and also non-pedophiles) do. I'm assuming you are talking about committing abuse. Many of us don't struggle with not abusing children, but we do struggle with internalized societal hatred. Imagine if you woke up tomorrow and realized you were a pedophile. You'd feel like the world was ending, I imagine. We need more free resources like Germany's Project Dunkelfeld. If pedophiles can feel free to reach out for help they are at reduced risk of harming themselves or others.