I know I don't have to read any of this, and I'm gonna filter this sub after I post...
Take it from another person having a shit time in life: This sub is just a bad idea. If you're having a hard time, this is only going to make it worse.
Don't do this to yourself.
unpopular opinion: over achievers people may/certainly need these communities.
as for the rest the majority are already under achievers, obviously don't need these communities.