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It is absolutely okay to say, βI donβt know.β
Iβd argue this is true even in instances where you should know as it will save time, damages, and/or misinformation.
The smartest people in the room are the ones who are the most excited by the answer, regardless of who answers it. You see them say "I don't know but I'll find out" and watch them pull someone who might know.
That was gonna be my follow up, do an effort to follow up even if it's just for your own knowledge. I love not knowing stuff because it means I get to find out, my family and girlfriend always call me smart but I'm not, I just take the extra step to find out stuff where people would usually drop it. Even if I just make a note on my phone to follow up for later.