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My house is big, but also he is asexual so that doesn't pose a problem. When his friends come over, I make myself scarce by retreating into my room. We are blessed to have space to ignore each other when we want.
It's trickier when one's house is small -- back in my younger days I remember having my boyfriend over to my parents' house. Luckily they were very welcoming and didn't try to make it awkward. I do think privacy for sex is a good reason to get a separate place.