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American here. Here's the three common contexts for tipping. Everything else is something someone's trying to make a thing rather than actually a thing:
Restaurants: If someone is bringing food from the Kitchen to your table
Delivery: If someone's delivering food. Or they're personally delivering groceries.
Transportation: If someone's driving you personally. Like a Taxi.
Some say you should tip bathroom attendants. I've never even seen a bathroom attendant, but that seems like such a bizarre job to tip for, even by American standards.
Bartenders are a case that you've missed. A standard cash rate is $1 per drink. Bartenders have a lot of leeway when it comes to how quickly you're served, and how strong your drinks will be, so tipping well may be in your interest.
And barbers/hairstylists. Unlikely to come up during a short visit though.
What about the driver of a free hotel shuttle to and from the airport, shared with others?
I had this situation last time I was in the states and I wasn't sure, so I just did what others did, which was to not tip. But I felt a bit bad after, like maybe I should have? And if I should have, how much would be appropriate?