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Completely correct, and it seems that mentality is alive and well.

Bluntly, society seems to put the burden of being independent and successful squarely on the shoulders of men with little regard to their well-being. For most men, everything has a solution where you "just need to do x" and you'll "fix" the issue. This works for stuff like a job, where something that's a problem requires an active task to find and execute the solution. Soft skills not required.

Meanwhile, a lot of traditionally female held roles in society, usually in the form of care (mother/parent, nurse, customer service) are very soft-skill heavy. There may be no solution, and their job is to make everyone okay with the situation.... More mitigation, than fix. Just make the problem less bad.

Meanwhile, nobody bats an eye when a woman mentions that they see a therapist, but when a guy mentions it, he's seen as weak, that he doesn't have the solutions to the issues he faces, yet the men have never been given the tools to deal with situations that they cannot control. Either you fall in line with a "yes, sir!" Or you find a new solution to fix the problem. Just accept it and move on with life, or find a better way. There's no grey area, so many just go with "it is what it is" rather than actually trying.

With society getting to the point where many traditionally gendered roles are being assigned to anyone (which, don't get me wrong, this is progress), the thinking needs to change.