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what is a skill you wish you had, and why? (feddit.nl)

submitted 11 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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Ok, I might as well go first: I wish I could draw. Not at the level where I could make photorealistic portraits, but I've always been envious of those who are able to scetch something together in a few minutes that perfectly captures what they want to convey. Sometimes words aren't enough to express what I want to say, and for those situations I would love to have a simple drawing do the talking for me.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Learning to say no. Many times or not to say all my life I have always tried to get along with everyone, and I always say "Yes" to everything, committing myself to things I really don't want just because I don't know how to say no.

[–] doubletandard 3 points 11 months ago

+1 on this. it look easy from outsider perspective until you are in that shoe and feel how much courage/skill it need to say no.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago

People pleaser, hey?